Coming to Terms with a New Diagnosis
October 27, 2023

Coming to Terms With a New Diagnosis: 5 Ways to Adjust

Being diagnosed with a medical condition such as diabetes, cancer or epilepsy can bring a wide range of emotions. You may feel shocked, worried, angry, overwhelmed or uncertain about what the future holds. There is no right or wrong way to feel, and it’s completely normal to need time to process your diagnosis.

While adjusting to life with a medical condition can take time, there are steps you can take to help you feel more informed, supported and in control. Here are five coping strategies you could try.

5 Ways to Cope With a New Diagnosis

1. Give yourself time

Receiving a diagnosis can be a lot to process. You may experience fear, disbelief, sadness, frustration or a whole range of emotions at different points.

Try not to put pressure on yourself to immediately accept or understand everything. Give yourself permission to process your diagnosis at your own pace. Be kind to yourself and remember that adjusting to a new reality doesn’t happen overnight.

2. Gather the facts

Once you feel ready, learning more about your condition can help you understand what to expect and what support or treatment options may be available.

Try to use reputable sources when researching your diagnosis. Your doctor or healthcare team may be able to recommend reliable websites and resources. Condition-specific charities can also be valuable sources of information, offering guidance, support groups and opportunities to connect with others who have similar experiences.

In the UK, the NHS website is a useful starting point for general health information, while organisations such as the National Institutes of Health can provide further medical information.

Remember, online information should complement — not replace — advice from your healthcare team. If you’re unsure about something you’ve read, speak to your doctor or another qualified healthcare professional.

3. Create a support network

You don’t have to navigate your diagnosis alone. Talking to family and friends about what you’re going through can help you feel supported and give the people around you an opportunity to understand how they can help.

Your support network could also include people who have personal experience of your condition. Hearing their stories and learning about how they manage day-to-day life can help you feel less alone.

Consider looking for an organised support group or condition-specific charity in your area. Organisations such as Cancer Research UK and the Epilepsy Society offer information and support for people affected by these conditions.

4. Keep a journal

A journal can give you a private space to process your thoughts and feelings. Writing things down can also help you keep track of symptoms, questions for your healthcare team, appointments and how you’re feeling from day to day.

If you notice patterns in your symptoms or how certain situations affect you, keeping a record may help you discuss these changes with your healthcare professional.

You don’t need to write pages every day. Even a few sentences about how you’re feeling can provide a helpful outlet.

5. Make time for the things that make you happy

A diagnosis can sometimes make your condition feel like the centre of your life. While managing your health is important, try to make space for the people, hobbies and activities that bring you joy.

Spend time with people you care about, continue doing the activities you enjoy where possible, and look for new ways to stay connected if your condition means you need to make changes to your usual routine.

Small moments can make a difference, whether that’s meeting a friend for coffee, enjoying a favourite hobby or simply taking some time for yourself.

You don’t have to do it alone

Coming to terms with a diagnosis is a personal journey, and everyone will respond differently. Give yourself time, seek reliable information, lean on the people around you and focus on the things that help you feel supported.

And remember, asking for help is a strength — not a weakness.

A medical ID bracelet, necklace or wallet card can provide important information about your condition and emergency contacts when you may not be able to communicate it yourself.

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Disclaimer: This article is for informational purposes only and is not intended as medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek advice from your GP or a qualified healthcare professional regarding any medical condition. Never disregard professional medical advice or delay seeking it because of something you have read here.

 

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