
Beyond The Surface: Embracing & Understanding Invisible Disabilities
When we hear the word ‘disabled’, we often think of someone in a wheelchair, using a cane, or with some sort of physical difference that we can see. But not all disabilities have visible markers, making them easily overlooked or misunderstood.
In this blog, we’ll explore invisible disabilities, how medical jewellery can support them, and how you can show compassion and respect to those who live with them.
Firstly ... what is an invisible disability?
An invisible disability is a physical, mental, or neurological condition that is not visible from the outside, yet can limit or challenge a person’s movements, senses, or activities. Unfortunately, the very fact that these symptoms are invisible can lead to misunderstandings, false perceptions, and judgments.
Examples of an invisible disability can include:
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- Chronic pain (fibromyalgia, arthritis)
- Neurological disorders (epilepsy, multiple sclerosis, Parkinson’s disease)
- Mental health conditions (anxiety, depression, PTSD)
- Autoimmune diseases (lupus, Crohn's disease)
- Hearing or vision impairments that don’t require the use of a guide dog or cane
- Fatigue-related disorders (chronic fatigue syndrome)
- Diabetes, particularly when insulin injections or blood sugar monitoring may be required.
Just because a person has a disability doesn’t mean they are disabled. Many people living with these conditions are still able to maintain a fulfilling lifestyle, balancing work, family, and hobbies.
For more information on what an invisible disability is, check out this article from the Invisible Disabilities Association.

Raising Awareness with Medical Jewellery
Medical alert jewellery can be a life-saving tool during emergencies by informing others about a person's medical condition or needs. For individuals with invisible disabilities, wearing medical alert jewellery can prevent misdiagnosis and unnecessary hospital admissions by giving first responders accurate information about their condition.
A medical alert bracelet or necklace can be handy as these are worn at your pulse points, which are often checked by first responders when they first arrive on scene.
Another way to raise awareness to your invisible condition is with our invisible illness heart pin. Or why not share your disability with a disability symbol pin.

Showing Support for Someone with an Invisible Disability
Supporting someone with an invisible disability requires a combination of empathy, patience, and awareness. Here are some tips you can follow to show your support:
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- Listen Without Judgement. When it comes to invisible disabilities, individuals may feel invalidated due to the lack of visibility. This can lead to feelings of frustration and isolation as others may not understand their struggles. It’s important to empathise and show genuine care for their experiences, rather than dismiss them.
- Offer Practical Help. Whether it’s carrying something for them or helping them navigate social situations, offering your help shows support. Sometimes, just offering a moment's rest can make a difference. Just make sure to ask if help is needed – or wanted – first.
- Respect their Needs and Boundaries. Living with an invisible disability can require breaks, quiet spaces, or a more flexible schedule. By respecting boundaries and needs, you are showing that you prioritise their comfort above all else. If they need to leave an event early or take time out for self-care, support them without making them feel guilty.
- Be Understanding about Accommodations. Accommodations may be necessary in various environments. Whether it’s extra time for a test or the ability to park closer to a venue due to fatigue, it’s important to be understanding and supportive of these adjustments.
For more tips on how you can support someone with an invisible disability, check out this link.
Or find out ways how you can support a friend with an invisible illness.
While there are a lot of helpful ways you can show your support to someone living with an invisible disability, there are also a lot of mistakes you can make. Here are a few you should try to avoid:
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- Assuming They Don’t Need Help. It’s easy to assume that someone is perfectly fine if they don’t have a visible sign of impairment. Always offer help, even if it’s not immediately obvious that it’s needed.
- Judging a Parking Permit. Disabled parking spaces are often occupied with seemingly able-bodied individuals, but it’s important to remember that these people may have an invisible disability. Chronic pain, fatigue, and mobility issues may not be visible, but they still require accommodations. Instead of assuming, please respect these designated parking spots for those with disabilities.
- Offering Unsolicited Advice. There’s nothing worse than telling someone with an invisible disability to “just rest more”, or to suggest a different treatment — this can make you seem dismissive or patronising. Respect their expertise in managing their health and avoid giving advice unless they ask for it.
- Invalidating their Experience. Comments like “You don’t look disabled” or “You look fine” can be harmful. Even well-meaning remarks can make people with invisible disabilities feel like their experiences are not valid. It’s important to recognise that the absence of visible symptoms doesn’t mean the person isn’t living with significant challenges.
Find out what you can do to help someone with an invisible disability at work.
With awareness and understanding, we can create a more inclusive environment of respect and support for those living with invisible disabilities. By showing empathy and educating ourselves, we can make life a little easier for them.
Remember, a little kindness goes a long way!
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